What makes us what we are?

The other Scottish Goans

The other Scottish Goans

We have been very busy over the last few weeks- doing a lot of traveling. It has been really good to catch up with family.

Michaela’s mum and step dad are staying with us this week.

A couple of weeks ago we were in the midlands of England, spending time with my mother, and my sister Katherine and her family. Katherine lives in a house that is always full of young people. She has four of her own- Josh the medical student, Elizabeth the ballet dancer, Ben the musician, and Nathaniel the youngest and apple of the eye. I don’t see enough of them all- but despite the distance, I love them dearly.

Then last week, we stayed for a night with my brother Steve, his wife Kate and little Jamie. There is a bigger story here, as we have only recently met.

My father and mother divorced when I was small, and I never knew him. We made contact again 2 years ago (my dad now lives in Northern Ireland,) and I was amazed to discover that I had a half brother who lives in Scotland, only a short drive from us.

You can imagine that the process of getting to know another branch of family that were strangers to us until recently has been wonderful, but deeply challenging.

Conversations with my father- and finding understanding of a sort.

Trying to explain to my mother the reasons why I would want such contact.

Taking my sister with me on the journey.

Last week, Steve and I had another of those ‘what if?’ discussions- wondering how our shared genetics interacted with out very different upbringings, and turned us into the people that we have become.

And I wonder. What might I have been with a different compost to grow in? Would the sensitivity that dogs me (and also inspires me) be mediated? Would I be more like me on my best days, or more like me on my worst?

These are impossible questions to resolve. All that we can do is note some of the ingredients, but the rest of it just IS.

And in this- like in all things- all will be well.

All manner of things shall be well…

Kingdom of heaven, retrospective…

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Like many others who have found such life in and around this thing we have come to call ’emerging church’, I have such a love for these words ‘Kingdom of Heaven’.

For many years they were words of condemnation for me…

Something other.

Something distant and dangerous.

Something I had to fight to enter, and at best, I might scrape my way into on a technicality.

Something that was wrapped up in charismatic ideas of spiritual warfare and triumphalistic ecstatic wierdness.

Something that in order to serve, I needed to be Holy. And I was not.

I remember that moment when I began to catch a glimpse of a different meaning of the words- as spoken by Jesus.

Of the Kingdom of God as something that grows inside me, like an infectious bubble of blessing.

As something that is here now, but also still to come.

As something that I participate in, but is beyond my understanding.

That welcomes the weak, and the weary, and the child like.

And is glimpsed, almost as a mirage, in our communing and loving and laughing together.

And the call on us, the agents of this kingdom, not to turn the whole world blind or salty, but to shine light on truth and beauty, and to season the flavours of Jesus wherever we taste them.

If these ideas are new-ish to you, or you would like to hear some more about the context that Jesus was speaking into, when he spoke of the Kingdom- check out this excellent Aussie radio programme…

Happy blogoversary…

Just realised that this blog is just over a year old.

It feels longer. It is strange how this exercise of on-line contemplation has become integrated into my life. It has marked a year of happenings- family, faith and other stuff that found a way beneath the contemplative radar.

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22,000 hits (but who is counting?!)

370 posts

308 comments

Has it been a good thing to spend time doing? I suppose the answer to this is inevitably mixed. Blogging can be such a selfish, self absorbed, even obsessive activity. But it has become one of the ways that I process thought. Even if no-one ever reads what I write, the process of writing for an invisible readership means that I am forced to structure and construct thought in a way that otherwise I may well not.

As for there being any wider value to the things I write- I leave this for you to judge.

So, to those of you who read- thanks!

Time for a revamp I think- expect some changes to how the blog looks…

Scotland, booze and dying young…

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As someone who works in social care and mental health, I have a particular interest in the effects of alcohol on the lives of individuals and wider communities. A recent draft policy document I was reading suggested that people whose lives were directly threatened by addiction may well be referred to community mental health teams for emergency intervention. This was of some immediate concern as I manage some of these teams, and resources/skills/training to meaningfully engage with trying to help people at a point of life such as this have not been discussed as yet- although it is already a major part of what we try to do.

I am also a director of a addictions charity, providing counselling and support, employment advice and links to other health care and rehabilitation. It is a good organisation, but there is always the perception that we can only do so much, for some people.

The recent news about alcohol related deaths in Scotland is staggering. A recent NHS study took a long hard look at death rates from statistics collected in 2003, and examined the root cause of death of people from cancer, liver failure, as well as serious accidents and mishaps. Their conclusion was that one in 20 people in Scotland die as a direct result of alcohol- roughly twice the previous assumed rate. Check out the story from the Herald here, or from the BBC here.

Here are some of the facts-

8 people die every day.

More men than women, and significant amounts of younger adults.

Alcohol accounts for one in four men and one in five women who die between the ages of 35 and 44.

It also accounts for one in twenty hospital admissions- 41,400 in 2003. Goodness knows what the cost of this care was in terms of lives shattered, employment lost and taxes spent.

Scots spend £5 billion each year on booze.

Deaths have doubled in the last 15 years.

Co-incidentally, the amount we drink has also doubled.

Prices of alcohol have plummeted. (70% more affordable than in 1980.)

Scotland has the eighth highest consumption rate in the world.

Compared with the latest figures compiled by the World Health Organisation (WHO), the Scottish Government said this would place Scotland as having the eighth highest pure alcohol consumption level.

This put the country behind Luxembourg (15.6 litres per capita), Ireland (13.7 litres), Hungary (13.6 litres), Moldova (13.2 litres), Czech Republic (13.0 litres), Croatia (12.3 litres) and Germany (12.0 litres).

But it put Scotland ahead of Russia – where alcohol-related deaths have cut the average life expectancy for men to 59 – and also the US and China.

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What is to be done?

This is certainly no simple issue- but rather a complex socio-economic-sociological one.

For my money (even as someone who enjoys the odd pint, or dram) prices have to go up. High prices =people drink less. It works.

And we need to do everything we can to challenge the drunken-hero-good time girl/boy- morning after war story culture. The getting off your face in order to have fun- seen across class, gender and age barriers in Scotland. Works nights out, birthdays, Saints days, sports events- all are a reason to drink, and to celebrate excess.

And for people caught in addiction- these are not second class citizens who are burden on the health services- characterised as ‘scum’ and ‘neds’. They are you and me- a product of the society that we have created together.

The role of Christians in this issue is interesting. The tradition of evangelical groups who championed the temperance movement as a response to the Victorian concerns about their own alcohol related societal problems is interesting. There are still Christian groups who operate in this tradition- sometimes adding a charismatic fervour to this tradition- for example the Maxie Richards foundation who are active in our area.

I am not convinced that temperance is the answer. But all power to those who try to make a difference. There are many chains that need to be broken…

Some Grey Bloke- you tube prophet for our times!

Came across Some Grey Bloke today and have been laughing and wincing along with him for a little while.

(WARNING- some sweary words, and perhaps just may offend the sensitive…)

So here is Some Grey Bloke on Christianity-

And just for contrast- and given our recent preoccupations in Dunoon, here is Some Grey Bloke on Swine Flu-

Turbo consumerism…

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Interesting discussion on the radio this morning about turbo consumerism. Listen again here.

Neal Lawson, Political correspondent for the Guardian newspaper and chair of the left wing democratic pressure group Compass, spoke eloquently about his feelings that our society is increasingly addicted to shopping- the main leisure pursuit of the nation. Lawson suggested that our sense of identity, well being and status have become tied up in the getting of STUFF. We talk about ‘retail therapy’- where shopping serves a deep purpose in our lives in terms of attempting to define who and what we are.

It could be suggested that western industrial society has always been consumer orientated, but at some time in the 80’s and 90’s we changed from a consumer society to a TURBO consumer society according to Lawson- a product of a culture that increasingly became credit and debt driven, and an economy that required us to upgrade our gadgets every 6-12 months in order to remain viable.

Lawson suggeted that people at the bottom of the income scale, who are unlikely to achieve highly in terms of education or employment invest a huge amount in designer labels- and this becomes a source of large amounts of crime.

None of us are unaffected by turbo consumerism. The advertising industry in all it’s multi layered sophistication, is intent on creating dissatisfaction with what we have, and what we look like, what our life is about, so that we might be more ready consumers of produce, gadgets and lifestyle enhancements.

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On my drive back from Bute today, some familiar questions were rattling around in my brain…

Is there a way back from this?

Is there a better way to live?

Do I need a new phone/car(scrappage allowance none withstanding!)/TV/MP3 player etc etc?

If I/we stop buying these products, then is recession not inevitable?

But who is paying the cost for this mad lifestyle now? Is it making us happy? What about the huge inequalities within our society, and the insatiable need for raw materials and cheap labour from the majority of the world?

Where do I start, and can I really make a difference?

I suppose the interesting thing is that these questions are being asked by many in the wake of the recent economic upheavals.

And some Christians are raising their voices to suggest alternative ways to live. Check out Generous.

Time to stop shopping, and start living…

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Fair trade and recession…

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Michaela and I have been interested in fair and ethical trade practices for some time. As a student, my final year thesis dug into this area. For some time we were Traidcraft representatives also.

In earlier times, fairtrade production was low scale and marginal. Who can remember the early instant coffees that tasted slightly like a mixture of sludge and gravy?

Fairtrade produce has become much more mainstream in the last few years. The supermarkets use Fairtrade as a niche selling strategy, and large companies like Cadbury’s, later followed by Galaxy have bowed to pressure and started to use fairtrade materials in their produce. Whilst the edges of what constitute ‘fair trade’ seems to be as fuzzy as ever, these larger scale moves towards breaking down the power of the multi-nationals and giving producers in the South a fair wage are great.

And then came recession.

Logic would suggest that during periods of recession people look to make savings on household bills. They are less willing to pay premiums for quality, and more likely to buy budget products. We might expect too that people will give less to charity, and buy less fair trade produce.

It is encouraging then to read this report from the Ethical Corporation Institute, which suggests that interest in ethical and fairtrade products is soaring.

I wonder why?

Is it possible that the aftermath of the consumer driven credit crisis has led to people examining again the lack of sustainability of our lifestyle? And the inequalities we depend on to maintain it?

William’s birthday!

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It was my boy Williams birthday yesterday. He was 9.

What joy the lad has brought to our family. Watching him grow from a baby to a boy, with all the potential and ability in the world- this is such a wonderful thing.

So happy birthday Will my lad.

A party of Aliens/Jedi/Sith in our back garden

A party of Aliens/Jedi/Sith in our back garden

Shooting stomp rockets at Aliens!

Shooting stomp rockets at Aliens!